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View from the Front Line of Team Sarcoma
By Peter Jay
(from an original email sent by Peter to the Sarcoma Mailtalk email list)
I just have to tell you about Torquay. The organisers, Brian and Debbie Lewis, together with our amazing Roger and his gorgeous daughter Flora (with background help from his wife Sheelagh) really pulled it off. For those who could not make Torquay can I just try to put some of it on here so that those who were unfortunate to miss it will, hopefully, pick up on some of the atmosphere of it all.
You need to remember that most people had never met each other before. Most people had been through(and many were either still going through or about to go through) the nightmare that is sarcoma.
Within hours of arriving at the hotel we were all in a room for a buffet dinner seated at largeround tables. Within no time at all it seemed we had all known each other for years - there was a warmth and friendliness that seemed totally out of place in a room full of enormous horror stories lurking in the background. We just bonded instantly and I lost count of the number of people who said to me "I can't believe this". We ate, drank and talked till late. The children that came were just perfect - all happy, well behaved and great fun to be with. The young, the old, black and white, gay and straight, patients and carers all reacted as if they were part of a very close family.
I just cannot explain it any better. There were no awkward moments - but there were some emotional moments. You cannot escape those and I wouldn't want to anyway. Saturday was organised for those who wanted to stay local whilst others trotted off to do their own thing. More bonding and talking took place on Saturday evening and then, on Sunday, was the big event. Some of those who completed the eight miles were amazing - I wimped out by taking the shorter route!
Being totally chuffed with ourselves we went into the buffet dinner that night on a high. Roger and Brian had organised a quiz night. The main competition was won bya team calling themselves the 'Veggie Table" and I can't work out how it was that so many know-alls managed to seat themselves at the same table!! I'm proud to say, Di, that I won one of your delightful cards - thank you for donating these. Oh, and Shirley, thank you from everyone for the 'Shirls' - ribbons we all wore for the weekend.
It concluded with endless requests for this to be repeated - we will do it, for sure. I won't forget this one, I met some truly amazing people.
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